What abilities are important that most people don't have?

just like The ability to make others "comfortable"

life on earth
You have to deal with people.

If you're having a great time with someone.
There is no discomfort in communication.
That's when you feel like you've met your soulmate.
Actually, no.
The most likely reason is that this person is extremely well-read.
He's downwardly compatible with you.

"I'm comfortable with him."
That's the best thing anyone can say about a friend.
Because it is necessary to
Knowing the depths, knowing the way forward and backward, and having boundaries.
But it's not easy.

Interacting with People
Language and Attitude
It's all a reflection of the inner workings of the mind.

Carnegie once said.
One Man's Success
About 15% depends on knowledge and skills.
85% Depends on communication and social skills.

This is the kind of wisdom that's at the top of its game.
It's a soft power we need to cultivate.